There seems to be a stigmatism attached to being alone on the dating scene. "Aloneness" is equated with loneliness - and loneliness with loser-dom. And who is going to go out with the lone geek sitting at the bar having a conversation with no one, right? On the contrary - going out alone can be a REAL asset when it comes to meeting women. In fact, it can do more for your game that you would ever imagine. Let me tell you why. Reason one is that going out alone quickly dispels any lingering problems you have with self-image or other people's opinions of yourself. As the lone wolf, you quickly learn that the only opinion that matters to you - is your own. Second reason - you have no "buddy factor" to worry about. You do not have to worry about your friends embarrassing you, driving off a potential date - or worse - picking up your potential date, or what time they have to be home. You can go wherever you choose, leave when you choose and do what you choose. Reason three - when a woman asks you "Who are you here with?", you can, without fail, show her right off the bat that you have the balls to be there alone. Instantly, that makes you a man with high status in her eyes. You don't say it like, "Well, no one wanted to go out with me tonight, so I am here by myself" You tell her, "I am here with my own great company - me!" In order to have this be effective, though, you have truly got to LIVE the confident, secure lifestyle of the alpha-male. Women can see through a faade, so you better have that self-assurance to back it up. What you do next is really begin to peak her attraction to you by starting a cocky-funny interaction with her. What you do is you start turning the tables around on her. When she asks her who you are there with, you tell her, "You!" She will laugh a little at that, and then ask you , "Ok, wise guy, who are you REALLY here with?" You then tell her, "Look, dude, I only met you a few minutes ago and you are already trying to get my life story? By the end of the week you are going to be packing your things into my apartment! Slow down!" Behind this little act, what you are showing her is that you are strong, confident, and NOT ruled by other people. AND - you are maybe just a LITTLE out of her "bracket" as far as status goes - she will have to work to get your interest. This is how cocky and funny works - using humor to be a "bad boy", charming, funny, and keeping her on her toes which will in turn, keep her coming back for more.
Dating Tips for Men - How to BE the Alpha Male
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